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Kanye “Asks Kim To Lose Weight:” Would You Stay Or Leave?

by Erika Nicole Kendall

So… this is the rumor:

Kanye West wants his girlfriend Kim Kardashian to lose weight.

The ‘Mercy’ rapper is said to have urged the reality TV star – who is famous for her curvy figure – to slim down and shed up to 20 pounds.

Kanye thinks his good friend Beyonce – who gave birth to her first child Blue Ivy last January – has a better body than his girlfriend of six months and is encouraging her to follow the singer’s grueling Dreamgirls diet, according to OK! Magazine.

A source close to the couple said: ”He even suggested Kim drop 20 pounds, arguing that Beyonce has a similar shape and she proved you can get that supermodel body using her lemon juice, cayenne pepper and maple syrup diet.

”He says he wants her to be the face of his clothing line… but to do that she has to fit into the clothes. It’s really uncomfortable – her shape is what made her name.

”He has a long-term fantasy of turning them into the new Beyonce and Jay-Z power couple, but getting Kim to starve isn’t the way to do it.”

Kanye recently got Kim to ditch her trashy style and start taking fashion tips from Britain’s Duchess Kate Middleton after buying her an entire new wardrobe of more conservative designer clothes.

A friend revealed: ”Kanye has been urging Kim to tone down her make-up and style her hair in a more conservative style, like Kate.

”And it’s not just Kate’s regal look that Kanye wants Kim to mimic. He’s also told her that she could learn a thing or two about poise and sophistication from Kate.” [source]

I, just… we can do the discussion about “changing your partner after you get with them” too, if y’all want,..but I’m curious: if you were Kim, how would you respond? Your partner encourages you to risk your health and starve yourself just so that he can feel more in lock-step with his best friend… do you call him out on it? Would you lose the weight or would you fight it? Do you stay, or do you leave?


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RunningIs... September 24, 2012 - 2:07 PM

Honestly, I would take that to heart and feel like he is trying to put me down as a person because he is making it clear that he is not accepting of who I am as I am. Considering I don’t have the type of personality Kim has I would have to say our relationship would be on the rocks after that.

Ashante' Williams September 24, 2012 - 2:31 PM

This really upsets me. I don’t think that you should try to change the way a person looks physically because you don’t happen to like it. If you don’t like it, then why are you with them in the first place. Here’s the thing. Kanye, pursued Kim, not the other way around..true they were friends but Kim was not even thinking of him in that way before the pursuit. So obviously he saw something he loved about her. Or maybe he was using her celebrity status to put himself back in the good graces of fans because people love Kim and being seen with her looks good on him. He has tried to change her all through the season of Keeping up with Kardashians by making her throw out her clothes because she dresses “trashy”, I have never seen her dress trashy ever before and I’m sure we never will. And yes he bought her a new wardrobe but it wasn’t even necessary. It’s just a way for him to control her and trying to get her to lose weight is another form of control as well. Saying it’s for his clothing line is just an excuse, because you can always change the sizes of the clothes to fit women who are not a size 0-8. Kim is healthy and gorgeous and so is Beyonce and they have beautiful bodies. I don’t know how B looks now and I don’t care, I really don’t think Jay Z would ask B to do anything like this because he chose her the way she was. The argument between Bruce and Kim makes perfect sense now..and Bruce needs to make his presence known more as does the entire family. This is not right. Kanye is not good for Kim. Kim needs to spend some time alone instead of jumping from one relationship to another. I hope she stands up for herself and not consider this terrible idea because she thinks it’s “love” for the 4th or 5th time.

RunningIs... September 24, 2012 - 3:16 PM

Asante I hear you and agree 100% but unfortunately that is not Kim’s behavior in relationships. This is a perfect storm because she throws herself completely into her relationships which leaves room to be controlled and it seems as though Kanye likes to control her; which is unfortunate and to me is a breeding ground for emotional abuse.

I’m sure she will “get it” one day and capitalize off of it by writing a tell all book and become the face/voice of women all over who let their men control every aspect of their life. But until she learns to stand up to him and tell him to take me as I am or step off then the shenanigans will just continue.

Gabrielle September 29, 2012 - 7:22 PM

He knew what she was like prior to dating her… For him to suggest she risk her health nust for looks is degrading. For that, their relationship should be reevaluated.

Bri September 24, 2012 - 2:11 PM

He clearly doesn’t love or accept for who she is. It seems he got into the relationship with the intent of changing her into who he felt she should be. I don’t think it’s his place to tell her how to dress or how much she should

Marquita September 24, 2012 - 8:01 PM

Absolutely, Im sure hes told her once or twice “You good but i can upgrade ya”

NicoleLisa September 24, 2012 - 2:15 PM

I would have to leave. It’s one this for your significant other to look out for your health and wellness for YOU, but to do so in comparison to someone else is quite rude. Kim needs to find her voice and not allow him to change her in the manner.
And to suggest losing the weight via lemon cleanse as opposed to going to the gym and switching up her diet is another reason to for her to say no thanks.

Marcia September 24, 2012 - 2:16 PM

I would tell him that I am being even more ambitious and I will lose about 180lbs…a lump called Kanye! Bye bye Mr. West. She looks amazing. Healthy, yes very curvy but she doesn’t need to lose all that weight. I find it hard to believe this story though.

Siegrid September 29, 2012 - 7:46 PM

I don’t think it’s true at all. I think it’s just a story to sell magazines, as usual.

AnnT September 24, 2012 - 2:18 PM

I were Kim, I’d lose the weight, because this is not an actual relationship. It’s a carefully plotted and planned business merger, involving attorneys, New networks, blogs, money and brands.

A don’t have real outrage for fake people. She better lose that weight before Kanye breaks their contractually obligated relationship agreement and leaves her before her own divorce is settled.

If this was a real couple, I’d leave. We’re not married, I don’t have to stay. I don’t need someone making me feel bad about myself.

Cole September 24, 2012 - 3:41 PM

^ This is funny. I’m cracking up on this reply.

Iris September 24, 2012 - 5:48 PM

AMEN!!! I totally agree. This is business only & I wouldn’t take it personal at all. I would jump on the opportunity at a new merger. I’m sure Kim sees it this way too because everything seems to be business with her.

Nefertiti September 24, 2012 - 2:23 PM

I don’t even like Kim but she doesn’t deserve someone like that a-hole. If I was in her position i would have been told him F-off! I don’t need your clothes, I had my own. I don’t need your shitty clothing line, because I have my own. Lastly I don’t need you! Her body is what made her famous if you take that away from her she won’t have anything because lets be honest her looking like that is the only thing she can do. I hope she dumps him but this is hollywood, so she won’t and she will lose the weight and look like a crackhead. Her momma needs to step in and put her foot down

Laurena September 24, 2012 - 2:24 PM

Yowza. It’s funny because my boyfriend is trying to get me to do the similar things, but for reasons I find much more encouraging. We’re both concerned about my health and the pounds I’ve added since becoming injured and less able to exercise. I also hate the fashion world, but clothes make the woman, and I’d like to move up in the world. The boy toy certainly doesn’t mind it when I look nice, but he’s much too smart to use anything but positive reinforcement and the employment carrot.

“I want you to be like these other women” would last about as long as it took me to find an alternate ride home.

We’ve both noticed that he’s started to prefer fresher ingredients since that’s what I feed him, and I do actively try to get him to relax, enjoy life, and pursue the things he enjoys as much as possible. That’s a change, too . . . but he knows I’ll only push him to hit the gym if he whines that he feels lethargic without his workouts, and that any “changes” I’m interested in him making are almost exclusively because I get a kick out of him being happy.

One exception: those darn cats of his I’m allergic to. Those can go. Any. Time. And I reserve the right to pick on him for wearing and decorating with nothing but black, though you won’t find me asking him to change. As long as he lets me have a few colorful rooms when we cohabitate, we’re all good.

Blackberry Molasses September 24, 2012 - 2:31 PM

If this is real…. there are so many things wrong with this… but at the same time… the jokes… they write themselves.
There is a whole tumblr dedicated to the complex hilarity of the relationship between Jay, ‘Ye and Bey. And its is FUNNY.

But if its true, she needs to cut bait and run. Kim is a SMALL woman. How much smaller does he expect her to be? And if he got with her the way she is now, then expecting her to change… with the idea of keeping up with his friend and his friend’s wife speaks to a level of deep seeded insecurity in HIM that is troubling.
Next, he’ll be asking her to dye her hair blond, go tanning and be Bey’s understudy.

Bee September 24, 2012 - 3:37 PM

@Black M…You are soo right. She should exit stage left butt I believe she’s gonna stay. If she drops 20 pounds, she’ll look like a racehorse (my grandmothers saying)!

Sophia Muriel September 24, 2012 - 2:32 PM

Hi, All:

Whew wee…there would be a confrontation. I understand your life partner wanting you to lose weight for HEALTH purposes…but for superficial purposes. That’s a different slab of meat.

Kim Kardashian isn’t Beyonce. Now, I can go on all day about why I think that they are different, but the truth of the matter is, they are different. They have different body types due to size…and their genes. For him to ask her to lose weight when she is already pretty fit (in my eyes), is pathetic on his part. If I was in that situation, I am going to give it down, ultamantum style: You either going to have to cut the crow or roll out the door. I am not going to be anyone’s puppet and lose weight for reasons of I want to compete with my best friend! I’ve already taken fashion advice for you. That’s the line I draw…now, you can either get on Sophia’s train, or you can catch the next one because I am not doing anything just to appease you concerning changing who I am!

Robin September 24, 2012 - 2:34 PM

For me it would be a: No Way Honey BooBoo. Once your partner can not accept you for you, it is time to say bye-bye. And if Kim goes with his suggestions he will have more later, any man or women that wants to change you, make you into what they want should just build them a robot, and he has the money to do that. Love just does not run that deep at least not in me, I’m just saying.

Mona September 24, 2012 - 2:37 PM

If they agree that he can loose more of his bad attitude, then maybe she’ll drop 20.

Dani September 24, 2012 - 2:54 PM

I was once with a man who wanted me to lose weight. He would try to convince me it was for my health. The last straw was when he referred to Beyonce as fat (in her “Bootylicious” days). I realized he was insane, had his own body issues and I didn’t want that in a relationship.

Who knows what is going on in K&K’s relationship? This story sounds like a reach. The press has been cooking up a Bey/Kim rivalry for awhile. This sounds like just another tactic.

But let’s pretend there is truth to it. I guess I could see if he had a fashion line, really wanted her as the face but thought the clothes would look better on her if she lost weight. It would suck to hear that from a boyfriend, but that is how the business is unfortunately.

I’ve lost over 60 pounds and my husband never asked me too. However, he probably hoped I would. I’m glad he never asked. It would have been very hurtful.

Sweetpea September 24, 2012 - 2:55 PM

Obviously, Kanye is obsessed with Beyonce. If I were Kim, I would ditch him and advice him to find someone else to conform to his obsession. If an individual cannot accept me for who I am, I am not for him. Is money really the most important thing? It definitely isn’t worth selling your soul and sense of self worth for.

Alisha Semplar September 24, 2012 - 3:21 PM

I really don’t feel that there is anything wrong with self improvement for the purposes of increasing your personal growth….what I found interesting was that Kanye aspired to become a “power couple”, similar to that of Jay-Z and Beyonce. Jay-Z and B did not become great without pinpointing what would make them successful. Personal appearance is sooooo crucial in the media and these icons are forced to change many things about themselves in order to reach a level they consider “successful”. I think some women may take Kanye’s request as offensive but I believe that some of the points that he has made are crucial changes needed to be made to survive in the industry that both he and Kim work in…$$$$

Ashleigh September 24, 2012 - 3:30 PM

If it were me, I’d tell him to kick rocks. He can take this or leave it where he found it. What’s really funny is that Kanye has actually been gaining weight lately. So, I would tell him to follow his own advice.
I’m hoping we’re not hearing the full story. But their whole relationship is disturbing to me. Especially the fact that he has basically fantasized about her/watched her sex tape/created one himself with a KK look alike…why change what he has wanted for so long? Kanye needs some help of the psychiatric variety.

oliviadaughter September 24, 2012 - 3:48 PM

Well it sounds more like a business deal than a loving relationship. I wonder did she obligate herself to lose the weight for the clothing deal. If so she needs to lose the pounds so she can keep the job. She likes exposure so she might just lose it to keep herself out there in the public eye. On the other hand if she did not agree to this and really likes this guy, she would need to cut him loose, he’s not that into her.

Kimmie September 24, 2012 - 4:19 PM

People should be allowed to tell their significant other to lose weight, work out and stay in shape to live a healthy more attractive lifestyle. On the other hand, comparing her body to another woman is really disrespectful. People have this dreamy idea of love that it’s all about being completely accepting of another person when truth is sometimes if you love people you have to tell them to focus on themselves.

Calliope September 24, 2012 - 4:29 PM

I would break his jaw again! I mean really? Kanye has got to be the most superficial person in the world. Does anyone else remember the humble, confused, rapper from Chicago? Who is this monster? I am not a Kim K fan at all, but I would be insulted. If he wants a Kate Middleton clone, then date Pippa.

BalancingJane September 24, 2012 - 4:37 PM

This story rings false to me. I suspect that either the magazine’s embellishing to sell copies or the couple leaked the rumor themselves to drum up controversy and attention.

But if it is real (and for all the relationships where such a request does happen), I’d be gone. That’s disrespectful and no basis for a relationship.

marie September 24, 2012 - 4:50 PM

I will punch him in the face and leave. Seriously there is a difference between:
“honey, I think you should do sth about your health and fitness, let’s go together at the gym”
“honey come on, Beyoncé looks better than you and she got a child?? Shed those pounds!”

My last bf was this kind of guy and I MOVED!

I don’t know the full story but I hope Kanye did not really say that to her like THIS. It’s mean.

robyn September 24, 2012 - 5:05 PM

I am not surprised by this rumor one bit. We were all exposed to the type of person Kanye was when he was with Amber. As well, Kim has definitely made it hard to NOT know what is going on in her life, and has clearly expressed that she is the type of women that will do anything for a relationship. I know Kim’s type, I was roommates with a girl that was exactly like Kim and even idolized her. Both Kim and my roommate, jumped from relationship to relationship, and would bend over backwards for the guy they were currently seeing. Of course, I and any respectable women out there would leave the relationship. But Kim, and my roommate are the type of female that will twist this situation by saying “No, I know that he loves me, he’s just trying to make me into the best person I can be, and I love him for that, blah blah.”

I don’t feel bad for her, it makes me despise Kanye a little more, but I don’t feel bad for Kim at all.

Lik September 24, 2012 - 7:06 PM

We shouldn’t get up in arms because the fact of the matter is if this rumor is true, Kim will do it. I have never seen a chick with such a low self-esteem in my life. As much as she disgusts me, the influence he’s had on her since they got together is frightening and baffling. She’s changed everything about herself to appease him, seemingly without question. Why be mad at him when she’s all too willing to fit into whatever mold a man has for her? Narcissistic and insecure at the same d@mn time. They’re perfect for each other.

chanela September 24, 2012 - 7:07 PM

i would tell him to lose some ego -_-

this is so confusing because i JUST saw on tmz that he actually encouraged her to gain more weight cause he likes “thickness” so now she gained weight and is hawking those weight loss pills she got in trouble for in america, but shes promoting them in australia (obviously they don’t own the internet.lol)

SweetiePuddinPie September 24, 2012 - 7:11 PM

If Kanye’s ‘advice’ was directed toward ME, hecks naw! lol However, directed toward Kim, very good advice. She does need to lose weight, upgrade her appearance (a more classic, less trashy look), and reduce the amount of makeup she wears. She could also learn to be more poised as well. He’s thinking about business – if she’s going to represent his clothing line, she’s got to look the part. I don’t think he’s asking anything less of her than what a modeling agency would ask of a model.

Marquita September 24, 2012 - 7:12 PM

I believe there is one thing to say that “i dont like your hair” its another to say i dont like your clothes, dress like this and slim it down…”and what was it that you were attracted to at the beginning?”. He seems ridiculous and Kim is just yearning for another sucessful man to rescue her like the dansel in distress that she is.

SweetiePuddinPie September 29, 2012 - 8:26 PM

I think what attracted Kanye to KK is that (1) he’s a control freak; and (2) she’s a weak woman.

Renise September 24, 2012 - 7:16 PM

If it’s true then I’m in the drop him like a bad habit camp! I don’t like her show or what I think she stands for (she and I have differing opinions on that) But I do think she looks great exactly as she is! She’s what- 5’3? She really shouldn’t weigh much less than 110lbs. And that’s only if she wants to lose the curves that as has been pointed out helped make her famous. And to compare her to Beyonce who is about 5 inches taller is ridiculously unfair. They don’t have similar shapes but I can see why Kanye would want Kim to look/act/be more like Beyonce. Beyonce has something that Kim doesn’t seem to display, a measure of good sense, graceful disposition and class. (and a great respect for her privacy which a few other celebs could learn from) From what Kim has chosen to air for the world, she has no sense, no class and could use a few lessons in being a lady.But these two women were raised very differently and Kanye having known her and the family for years knows exactly what type of woman he has. Hopefully he figures out if its what he wants before trotting her down the aisle only for her to be 32 and 3x divorced…

Mecca September 24, 2012 - 8:21 PM

Honestly, I don’t believe that this story is true as its written. I would love for it to be validated first. It paints him in such a disparring light when we know he’s on a PR campaign to reinvent himself.

LaDonna September 24, 2012 - 9:17 PM

if any of this is true then he is a controlling jerk and she needs to run for life

Kamikak September 24, 2012 - 9:58 PM

This is nothing more than abuse and control. Women often wonder how they ended up in abusive (emotional, physical, psychological, etc.) relationships and why they didn’t see the signs. Well here are the signs. He is controlling her life and turning her into a slave. She is so fame aspiring that she will do anything to get herself to the next level. Their relationship is a farce. She’s trying to become a legitimate celebrity (i.e. no sex tape)and create a dynasty. He’s just the medium to help her do it. This public scrutiny of her weight is just another way to keep her off balance and dependent on whatever he gives her. I also sense a bit of S&M here.

Torah September 24, 2012 - 11:45 PM

Ummmm…..I feel bad for her if that is really the case. Yes she is in spotlight, but even Beyonce herself lets the world know the aim is not to be controlled by you. In all honesty though….IF Kanye told Kim to lose it, it really doesn’t surprise me. I guess I will have to tune in to Keeping Up with the Kardashians to really see what’s what. I did notice on this last episode Kim said she doesn’t wear lashes anymore. I hope she is making changes on her own. That’s sad to feel controlled and have spotlight on you. #hatethat

Serenity September 25, 2012 - 8:10 AM

I have a HUGE problem with changing for anyone other than myself. I loathe KKash and her social climbing no talent having antics, but I will lose any humanly respect for her if she goes along with it. And Kanye is an untalented beast for asking

cynthia September 25, 2012 - 12:22 PM

according to OK magazine…they make up things all the time. Kanye adores Kim and loves her curves i doubt he is being picky about her weight.

Loretta September 25, 2012 - 2:26 PM

I knew this was a setup! Kaye was just with Kim so Kim would hurry and give her ex a quickie divorce and give him what he wanted! (Jay Z probably felt sorry for Kim’s ex and asked Kanye to do this for him!)

Aisha September 25, 2012 - 8:20 PM

Pff! He is nuts! She should tell him:

“[Negro] I look good! I got you, didn’t I? Stop trying to be cheap and HIRE a skinny b*tch to model your little ugly ass clothes! You got me TWISTED talking about lemon juice diet GTFOH!”

Real talk. That’s what she should say. No need to break up with him, just shut that sh!t down, period point blank.

Sam September 25, 2012 - 8:44 PM

Before they were even together I had heard that Kanye West likes to control his girlfriends down to what they eat and what they wear. My opinion of Kim K. couldn’t really get a whole lot lower and I honestly wouldn’t put it past her to get into a controlling abusive relationship just for the publicity. I have been in a relationship where I was asked to lose weight though and I left. It’s my body and I feel I’m the only person entitled to make decisions about what to do with it.

Annette September 26, 2012 - 1:14 AM

I will say this we as women go through our growing pains. Kim is no different. The only thing is the rest of the world is watching her struggle with her issues.

Kim is a man pleaser and loves the limelight she feels without it she is nothing. She loves the attention I feel it’s an addiction almost.

Why is she with Kanye because he is a mirror of how she feels about herself. He ex-husband treated her the same way some of the things he said she never checked him on. Like a lot of us we become deaf until it’s constant the picking apart of who you are, then we move on to someone else who looks different but acts the same way. When will she take the time to clear up her feeling of inadequacy to decide on her own if she wants to lose or needs to lose 20lbs or not is up to her. Just like life it will constantly repeat itself until we get it.

So her ex husband’s, Reggie, Kanye doesn’t matter she will meet the same guy until she stops the cycle. Somewhere in her head and heart she feels she deserves this.

Miss Tattoo (@Tattoosandlace) September 26, 2012 - 4:31 PM

This is sick. I mean, it’s one thing to want your partner to be healthy and lose weight if they are in danger of health problems, but a few vanity pounds done in the most unhealthy way? Beyonce should have had her head chopped off for encouraging her stupid diet to the masses. I understand the dress more modest and stop acting like a fool but to tell her to lose 20 pounds in a dangerous way is going too far. He didn’t have a problem with it when he was pursuing her!

LBrooke September 26, 2012 - 9:05 PM

Leave, and blame it on his junk, down thurr. If you’re going to low blow me, I’ll low blow you harder! =)

wanda September 27, 2012 - 11:02 PM

Its clear by Kanyaes treatment of Taylor swift a few years back and of Kim now that he doesn’t respect women. To think that this woman, whoisnt even your wife, should abandon her individualism and please him by emulating his best friends wife and a chick from across the pond that he admires is unacceptable. Kim just needs to separate herself from the Kanye, Jay-Z, Beyonce crew once amdfor all.

Erika Nicole Kendall September 28, 2012 - 6:57 AM

Good grief.

Tranae September 29, 2012 - 6:41 PM

If this were a ‘real life’ relationship red flags would go up for me but they are celebrities. They are expected to be thin. If Kim were to gain 5 more pounds then everyone would say she was fat. Sad but it is the life she selected for herself. Therefore, I don’t pity her.

SweetiePuddinPie September 29, 2012 - 8:19 PM

…plus, her own dear ‘mother’ (if you can call her that) is exerting far more control over her than Kanye is. KK’s image and so forth has been controlled by her ‘mother’ for years. KK is just tranferring some of that control over to Kanye – KK just can’t think for herself and needs somebody to tell her what to do. Sad.

Shawn September 30, 2012 - 9:41 AM

This is a shame and a scandal! Why date someone just to change who they are. Granted, she may be getting older and wanted to change her fashion style however to tell her to lose weight is ridiculous. If she decided to lose weight on her own, thats one thing, but to compare her to someone else and the foolishness that Beyonce has decided to do to herself to be thin does not mean that is ok for someone else. What is the message that Kanye is saying? I like you but I like you even more if you were a Kate Middleton, Beyonce clone!!! Kim has made it this far (whether people like it or not) on her appearance, why change now? Women can be so lonely at times that we accept anything and call it love not to know that its bad news. I can truly say that this article has inspired me to get off my duff and truly love me for me. I can change for myself and someone may benefit but thats MY CHOICE!

Moni October 9, 2012 - 1:19 PM

Am I the only one who this this article is completely made up? Also aren’t Beyonce and Kim K the same size already? Kim K is not big and Beyonce is not skinny.

Erika Nicole Kendall October 9, 2012 - 3:38 PM


Monica October 31, 2012 - 11:47 AM

It’s seems like he’s trying to manufacture a woman.Although I don’t think his suggestions will hurt her but I guess you aren’t truly happy if you’re someone’s made up doll.

AshBash December 30, 2012 - 12:12 AM

so i HAD 2 leave my 2 cents because I do know Mr.West personally/professionally! and this is true. if i were Kim, I would not stay. Kanye is very controlling when it comes to the appearance of his female companions. He wants them to look “perfect” at all times but especially when they are together. I sincerely doubt that he will change. He’s been this way since becoming famous.

Anyway, if it were me, I would dip out. She is a healthy woman and is fit (she eats pretty healthy and exercises regularly). Maybe Kanye should try to use her as the face of his clothing line and say “HEY! This is how some women are shaped!” Not all women are a size 2 or 4. And being a certain size does not necessarily reflect one’s health. I just hope she makes a decision based on health and not on Kanye’s wants.

CJ December 30, 2012 - 3:57 PM

But personally, I’d leave.. Not two buts about it.

I recently started talking with an old friend who I was really attracted to back in college, only for him to tell me that the feeling is mutual, he just couldn’t get past the fact that I wasn’t comfortable with myself then and as much as I was a tomboy I was deliberately dressing unattractive which he didn’t like.

I’m being healthy for me, losing the weight because of my health and what he’s impressed with now, is despite my being comfortable with who I am, he understands why I’m tryin to be more healthy.

That’s the kind of man Kim, or any woman needs, one who will support her decision to lose weight for her own reasons, not forcing her to do it. Gah!

TeeKAY December 30, 2012 - 9:43 PM

This is a total “I wish a ninja would’ moment. I’ve got too much of a backbone (and mouth) to let anyone tell me that I should starve myself. It would be straight static between me and my significant other if such a thing were to be brought up. Hell, I read this fool I was dating the riot act when he suggested I ‘do’ (perm) my hair so he could take me out to dinner. *Record-scratch* – ummm – say what now?
I’d respect if my man offers to help me lose weight. I’m sensitive, but I would be up for that.I could always use a work-out buddy. However, That speed-diet stuff isn’t longterm. Alas, Kim K seems to be silly puddy in Kanye’s hands – she probably will do it. *kanye-shrug*

If I was Kim I’d tell Kanye to kick rocks. The hell do I look like …a fixer-upper house you can gut and flip then put back on the market? NAHHH buddy!

Alecia December 31, 2012 - 9:44 AM

I read this blog the other day and did not respond. What is funny is today they announced Kim is pregnant. I wonder if this was a stunt to just cover the pregnancy by saying he called her fat. And maybe he wanted her to dress conservative because she is pregnant.

Maria Gonzales July 8, 2013 - 6:33 PM

Kim is famous because of a sex tape. Was he really expecting her to be ‘sophisticated’?also to the people saying that’s her natural shape etc etc. Come on we all know that she is fake. IF she didn’t have the fake ass,boobs, etc she’d naturally look a lot smaller. I really feel for her because in the next 5 to 10 years nobody is gonna remeber/care about her.

Faye knows August 12, 2013 - 3:44 PM

Why is Kim loser magnate, I’ll tell u y be cuz she comes off as weak and child like talking like a baby all the time, of course you get no respect no one can take you seriously! Didn’t she post a pic with her tongue sticking out at the world like a 2 yr old?

Until she grows up she will attrack bulldozer men like kanye, Chris humphried, ray jay and whomever else is looking to bully someone.

Amy September 16, 2013 - 4:46 PM

I’d be like “Yo, Kanye, I’mma let you finish…..but first I’mma finish my sandwich”. And then I’d dump him.

Erika Nicole Kendall September 17, 2013 - 11:23 AM

You win. LMAO

Tiffany October 1, 2013 - 4:13 PM

This is just a PAINFULLY ridiculous couple. We ALL know why Kim Kardashian is really famous…she just happened to get lucky and turn her 15 minutes of fame into a reality show. As for Kanye…I fully accept that College Dropout Kanye is NEVER coming back. He’s egotistical and probably kisses his himself in the mirror every hour. These two will NEVER I repeat NEVER be Jay-z/Beyonce. But to answer the original question, if there was actually something unhealthy about my size, say I was obese and/or had a bunch of health complications, and my partner was trying to help me get healthier, I would accept the help. If I was dressing in a way that was preventing me from getting a job(think about those makeover shows and the woman can’t find a job because of her style of dress/make up and then after the makeover, she gets hired), I would take the help. But Kim Kardashian….there’s nothing wrong with her size. It bothers me that Kanye, even though I completely expect this kind of Sugar Honey Iced Tea from him, is going this drastic. I remember when his mom passed, he said that he was going to hire a trainer for her before she wanted to get plastic surgery. Now he wants Kim to do the cleanse that Beyonce did…what in the world is he thinking? The bad part is that I feel like Kim is so….silly(I want to say something else but I can’t) that she would do this for him…or any man who asked.

Shanae October 22, 2013 - 12:16 PM

If I were Kim Kardashian and I got my fame, partially, because of my body, then I would expect any man that I’m with to want me to lose weight.

There is very little space for someone like Kim Kardashian or any model or singer to really complain about a spouse who wants him/her to lose weight to look the way s/he did prior to any life changing event that resulted in weight gain.

Also, I’d presume that Kim Kardashian wants to lose weight quickly – regardless of what Kanye West said. The most offensive part of this whole thing would be Kanye West’s desire to turn himself and Kim Kardashian into a Jay-Z and Beyonce. How weird is that? Having your mate ask you to “look” like someone else?

Denice Smith December 11, 2014 - 10:44 AM

A source close to the couple said:

A friend revealed:

C’mon now! Really…?
That aside…I would have to say no, if the reason he was asking was to have me emulate his friend’s wife/girlfriend.

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