7 04, 2017

5 Ways Fitness Can Improve Your Sex Life

By | 2017-07-25T01:26:39+00:00 April 7th, 2017|Did You Know|1 Comment

Erika's note: This post gets graphic. This post is for grown folks. Notice I didn't say mature folks. I just said grown ones. I might make a couple of dick jokes in here, and I don't want any e-mails about how you were clutching your pearls while you read this. I have pearls, too. I [...]

15 01, 2015

Dating While Fat And Feminist, And The Nasty Things You Learn When You Lose Weight

By | 2017-07-25T12:53:46+00:00 January 15th, 2015|Beauty, Social Construct, Standards of Black Beauty|215 Comments

"You wind up making friends with guys who admit their dating preferences freely, knowing that - since you're no longer fat - they won't offend you..."

6 06, 2014

Your Daughter, Her Weight… And You

By | 2014-06-06T00:28:06+00:00 June 6th, 2014|Beauty|14 Comments

I remember high school. I'd pretty much prefer to forget, honestly. I can say that I enjoyed my years, there. I was entrenched in the music department, lived in the library and was pretty good at staying out of trouble. I was pretty shielded from the traumas of weight that the outside world was facing. [...]

5 06, 2014

A Follow Up To Sexual Harassment, Sexual Assault & Weight Gain: Outside Perspective

By | 2014-06-05T12:19:34+00:00 June 5th, 2014|Social Construct, The Op-Eds|51 Comments

A white man's perspective of street harassment and interactions between men and women of color.