Q&A Wednesday: Is "Cornfed" Really A Compliment? - A Black Girl's Guide To Weight Loss

Q&A Wednesday: Is “Cornfed” Really A Compliment?

The crowded quarters...

Q: I saw you tweeting yesterday about how being called “cornfed” isn’t really a compliment. I’ve heard me and my girls be called this before, but it didn’t sound mean. Why isn’t it a compliment?

A: For those who may not know (and there may be many, because I only hear this used in random places in the midwest and the south), you use “cornfed” to describe a person with a large behind and large thighs. “You see Suzy Q lookin’ all cornfed in those jeans?”

This has a long backstory, that results in a very short simple answer. I’ll keep it as short as I can.

This, honestly, comes from cows. Cows eat grass and roam around on pastures all day, or at least they’re supposed to do so. When cows eat properly and are allowed to get their exercise, they are able to develop strong muscles because not only are they eating what they’re supposed to be eating, but they’re living how they’re supposed to be living. (By the way, that’s what “grass fed beef” means.)

The crowded quarters...

Now, cows aren’t supposed to be fed corn, but they are. Cows aren’t supposed to be kept in small and crowded quarters, but unfortunately, they are. Cows are fed corn because corn is a cheap way to quickly fatten up a cow. Cows are kept in crowded quarters because the lack of exercise, coupled with theintentionally fattening diet, causes the cows to fatten up (or, in the eyes of the industry,”grow”) much quicker. There’s not as much muscle (if any) as it would be if the cow had its proper diet and exercise.

So, basically, a cornfed cow is a poorly fed, poorly exercised, fat cow in comparison to what it should be. That’s the origin of the term “cornfed.” It’s basically meant to imply that a cow is more fat than muscle. It’s kind of interesting – the parallel, there.. because people who eat a bad diet and don’t get proper exercise suffer that same fattening fate. I don’t really know how it morphed into a compliment for women – if I called a girl a fat cow, she’d probably want to slug me – but nowadays, practically anything said to a woman with a smile is taken as a compliment. I don’t really know where to go with that.

So… now that you know, how can you respond? I have two answers… depending upon what kind of mood I’m in. For one, I’d give the “confused Scooby Doo” look and say, “You know that’s not a compliment, right?” And when I’m told “Yes it is!” I’d simply reply, “Do you know where that comes from?” And when you get the answer that clearly denotes a lack of understanding, reply “How do you know its a compliment if you don’t even know where it came from?” and end the conversation. My second answer still involves the “confused Scooby Doo” face, but that’s it. Nothing else.

The proud leader of the #bgg2wlarmy, Erika Nicole Kendall writes health, fitness, nutrition, body image and beauty, and more here at #bgg2wl. After losing over 150lbs, Kendall became a personal trainer certified in fitness nutrition, women's fitness, and weight loss from the National Academy of Sports Medicine. She now lives in New York with her family, and is working on her 4th, 5th and 6th certificates.

6 Comments

  1. Liz

    July 28, 2010 at 10:03 AM

    Funny. I usually heard it used in reference to big country wide-receiver looking men. “Did you see that cornfed-looking dude chewing tobacco in chemistry today?! Gross!” Lol

  2. JoAnna

    July 28, 2010 at 12:40 PM

    I’m with Liz. I always heard “cornfed” in terms of beefy, big athletic football guys who had “country” ways. And yes I used to work with a cornfed type who chewed tobacco and spat all the time in a pop bottle or can. Not mentally slow, but COUNTRY!! He claimed tobacco juice kept away mosquitoes, and bedbugs (I don’t know how he knows this!), and kept him alert when driving. It also kept him dateless for months!

    I have been called: big boned, “healthy”, thick, a Cadillac (built for comfort, not speed), but never cornfed. By the way, I do LOVE a medium, thick, Grass-fed rib-eye steak every once in a while!

  3. Rita

    July 29, 2010 at 11:42 AM

    I’ve never heard the term “cornfe” but I have heard “ya’ll southern girls need to lay off the cornbread” or “girl you been hitting that cornbread water, look at all that booty”…..its all bad

  4. Jewel

    December 2, 2011 at 10:31 AM

    Exactly!

  5. Eva

    December 2, 2011 at 4:51 PM

    There is a saying that goes, “he was born, bred and corn-fed to do…..” but in that case corn-fed isn’t about weight, it’s about having “traditional” American values or something.

  6. K

    June 16, 2012 at 10:13 AM

    Wow if a man called me cornfed I would think he was calling me genetically modified. If I am genetically modified then I have some sort of weight problem sounds Therefore its sounds insulting.

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