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		<title>By: Kait</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-6425</link>
		<dc:creator>Kait</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 19:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Similar to everything I&#039;ve read on the site thus far, I love this post!  Like Michelle, however, my comment has to do with your view of direct sales companies.  While I certainly cannot speak about Ardyss or any company besides my own, I can tell you what I know from my personal experience....

&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Editor&#039;s Note:&lt;/strong&gt; All due respect, please don&#039;t make this about something it&#039;s not. Seriously. 

This isn&#039;t about direct sales companies with honest consultants that they train to actually learn the product they are selling. This is about companies that hire people who resort to unscrupulous and dishonest tactics to sell their product. Period. This isn&#039;t even about Ardyss salespeople who HONESTLY push the body magic as what it is: a girdle. It&#039;s about people who sign on and start selling &quot;thin dreams&quot; (with no concern of the overall health of the potential client) to women in order to make a profit. It&#039;s downright disgusting, and I&#039;m sure you can see that.

If you work for a DSC that is honest and that has you honestly and earnestly earning your dough, then kudos to you... but know that this &lt;strong&gt;really&lt;/strong&gt; isn&#039;t about you right now, lol.&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Similar to everything I&#8217;ve read on the site thus far, I love this post!  Like Michelle, however, my comment has to do with your view of direct sales companies.  While I certainly cannot speak about Ardyss or any company besides my own, I can tell you what I know from my personal experience&#8230;.</p>
<p><em><strong>Editor&#8217;s Note:</strong> All due respect, please don&#8217;t make this about something it&#8217;s not. Seriously. </p>
<p>This isn&#8217;t about direct sales companies with honest consultants that they train to actually learn the product they are selling. This is about companies that hire people who resort to unscrupulous and dishonest tactics to sell their product. Period. This isn&#8217;t even about Ardyss salespeople who HONESTLY push the body magic as what it is: a girdle. It&#8217;s about people who sign on and start selling &#8220;thin dreams&#8221; (with no concern of the overall health of the potential client) to women in order to make a profit. It&#8217;s downright disgusting, and I&#8217;m sure you can see that.</p>
<p>If you work for a DSC that is honest and that has you honestly and earnestly earning your dough, then kudos to you&#8230; but know that this <strong>really</strong> isn&#8217;t about you right now, lol.</em></p>
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		<title>By: Ramell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ramell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am approximately 90 lbs overweight. I am now making the strides to do what needs to be done in order to lose weight.  I&#039;ve learned that there are plenty of compression garments (rubberized girdles) that make the claim of losing weight.  I&#039;ve also tried the Vedette by Ardyss and I own one by a company called Squeem.  After using these type of products over time, I had ended up with blisters and severe scarring for trying to look &quot;smaller&quot; (to the extent I almost fainted because the garment is so constricting.

I will admit I have had severe self esteem issues because of my weight.  In saying all of this, We must learn to love the person that God created us to be.  Weight is something that can be controlled and there is no quick fix  to it.  I still put on a girdle to firm my waist, but my goal is to lose the weight and the be happy with the body God gave me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am approximately 90 lbs overweight. I am now making the strides to do what needs to be done in order to lose weight.  I&#8217;ve learned that there are plenty of compression garments (rubberized girdles) that make the claim of losing weight.  I&#8217;ve also tried the Vedette by Ardyss and I own one by a company called Squeem.  After using these type of products over time, I had ended up with blisters and severe scarring for trying to look &#8220;smaller&#8221; (to the extent I almost fainted because the garment is so constricting.</p>
<p>I will admit I have had severe self esteem issues because of my weight.  In saying all of this, We must learn to love the person that God created us to be.  Weight is something that can be controlled and there is no quick fix  to it.  I still put on a girdle to firm my waist, but my goal is to lose the weight and the be happy with the body God gave me.</p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 13:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate the honesty, here - it is a girdle. Not a weight loss tool, and it will NEVER be a weight loss tool. People who sell it as otherwise (or try to sell it as a &quot;you don&#039;t need to lose weight, you just need to buy one of these) deserve to lose every penny of their investment. Period. 

I am harsh - extremely harsh - when it comes to people who try to defraud those of us who are in pursuit of better health. It&#039;s hard enough out here to get accurate information from people who have our best interests at heart. Being swindled into thinking some fabric can save our lives is heartbreaking and ridiculous.

Thank you for your honesty (and not publicizing your link on my site.). :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate the honesty, here &#8211; it is a girdle. Not a weight loss tool, and it will NEVER be a weight loss tool. People who sell it as otherwise (or try to sell it as a &#8220;you don&#8217;t need to lose weight, you just need to buy one of these) deserve to lose every penny of their investment. Period. </p>
<p>I am harsh &#8211; extremely harsh &#8211; when it comes to people who try to defraud those of us who are in pursuit of better health. It&#8217;s hard enough out here to get accurate information from people who have our best interests at heart. Being swindled into thinking some fabric can save our lives is heartbreaking and ridiculous.</p>
<p>Thank you for your honesty (and not publicizing your link on my site.). <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Yvette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yvette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 02:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Erika

I came across your site while surfing for information about Ardyss International.  I recently joined the company and also have a garment.  It&#039;s not the Body Magic but it is a reshaper.  I felt somewhat uncomfortable after reading some of the post because I feel exactly the same way you do.  I consider myself to be an honest person and while I like the way I look in the garment it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable when I hear some of the distributors say that the garments cause you to instantly drop 2 to 3 sizes because that is not true. They temporarily reshape you. Now, there are some groups in the company that are passionate about promoting wellness but for the most part I think there are people in the company that are all about the money and at the end of the day you must be in tune with something much more powerful than money in order to have peace (which is what we&#039;re all really seeking through various things including money).

I like what the garment is doing for me.  It allows me to walk in and enjoy the illusion of a more desired figure.  It motivates me to work toward the reality of the more desired figure.

I have some back problem and the garment does give me some relief but in my case if I lost some weight it would almost resolve the problem.   I&#039;m glad that you&#039;re so passionate about curing a disease as opposed to just dealing with masking a symptom.  

I&#039;m sure you seem harsh to some people but sometimes the truth is ugly and it hurts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Erika</p>
<p>I came across your site while surfing for information about Ardyss International.  I recently joined the company and also have a garment.  It&#8217;s not the Body Magic but it is a reshaper.  I felt somewhat uncomfortable after reading some of the post because I feel exactly the same way you do.  I consider myself to be an honest person and while I like the way I look in the garment it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable when I hear some of the distributors say that the garments cause you to instantly drop 2 to 3 sizes because that is not true. They temporarily reshape you. Now, there are some groups in the company that are passionate about promoting wellness but for the most part I think there are people in the company that are all about the money and at the end of the day you must be in tune with something much more powerful than money in order to have peace (which is what we&#8217;re all really seeking through various things including money).</p>
<p>I like what the garment is doing for me.  It allows me to walk in and enjoy the illusion of a more desired figure.  It motivates me to work toward the reality of the more desired figure.</p>
<p>I have some back problem and the garment does give me some relief but in my case if I lost some weight it would almost resolve the problem.   I&#8217;m glad that you&#8217;re so passionate about curing a disease as opposed to just dealing with masking a symptom.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you seem harsh to some people but sometimes the truth is ugly and it hurts.</p>
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		<title>By: Ella</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 16:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t take the time to read all of the comments, but I purchased the body magic garment, and I wished that I would&#039;ve done a little more research into it before buying it. &quot;THEY&quot; stated that you would lose 3 dress sized instantly, well, that&#039;s not true. I tried to put on something smaller, and it didn&#039;t fit, in fact, I have trouble trying to button up the jeans that I can fit which are a size 16. I think the body magic was designed to people with a little belly fat that they want to have tightened up for personal appearances and that&#039;s it. Just my personal opinion on the matter from a very dissatisfied customer of the garment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t take the time to read all of the comments, but I purchased the body magic garment, and I wished that I would&#8217;ve done a little more research into it before buying it. &#8220;THEY&#8221; stated that you would lose 3 dress sized instantly, well, that&#8217;s not true. I tried to put on something smaller, and it didn&#8217;t fit, in fact, I have trouble trying to button up the jeans that I can fit which are a size 16. I think the body magic was designed to people with a little belly fat that they want to have tightened up for personal appearances and that&#8217;s it. Just my personal opinion on the matter from a very dissatisfied customer of the garment.</p>
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		<title>By: Denisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Denisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 15:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW....First let me be the first to say that I do need to lose some fat.  After 15 yrs, of marriage, two kids, &amp; a husband who cooks like his mother, it is starting to weight on me (pun intended).  I came across this Body Magic &amp; was sucked in but FINALLY came to my senses that a lot of women are not paying that much for something they can get a whole lot less! LIek I did @ Macy&#039;s that did exactly what I need it to do.......slim me down &amp; suck me in.

I admit, I was SUCKED IN.  I have since repented for the transgression of my ways for the sake of losing fat when I just should have exercised more, eat less, &amp; drink more water.  In the end, that squeezed up &amp; out fat will still be there, just in another place where it shouldn&#039;t.

As far as the Ardyss business is concerned, the only way you really make the cash is brinign in a lot of people at the $300 entry level.  DEFINATELY A MLM to the extreme.  At least Mary Kay sells what ppl need &amp; is disposable everyday!

I SO TOTALLY LOVE THIS SITE &amp; will be reading it daily while at work since Facbebook is blocked! :(

Keep up the great work!  This site gives me hope on a computer screen!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW&#8230;.First let me be the first to say that I do need to lose some fat.  After 15 yrs, of marriage, two kids, &amp; a husband who cooks like his mother, it is starting to weight on me (pun intended).  I came across this Body Magic &amp; was sucked in but FINALLY came to my senses that a lot of women are not paying that much for something they can get a whole lot less! LIek I did @ Macy&#8217;s that did exactly what I need it to do&#8230;&#8230;.slim me down &amp; suck me in.</p>
<p>I admit, I was SUCKED IN.  I have since repented for the transgression of my ways for the sake of losing fat when I just should have exercised more, eat less, &amp; drink more water.  In the end, that squeezed up &amp; out fat will still be there, just in another place where it shouldn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>As far as the Ardyss business is concerned, the only way you really make the cash is brinign in a lot of people at the $300 entry level.  DEFINATELY A MLM to the extreme.  At least Mary Kay sells what ppl need &amp; is disposable everyday!</p>
<p>I SO TOTALLY LOVE THIS SITE &amp; will be reading it daily while at work since Facbebook is blocked! <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Keep up the great work!  This site gives me hope on a computer screen!</p>
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		<title>By: IrieDiva</title>
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		<dc:creator>IrieDiva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 20:09:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SO, I&#039;ve been on this site all damn day...good job! LOL 

onto this whole debate. your post made me want one. I have some cheap azz girdles that always bunch up and just do an all around terrible job and i saw where someone says it does it even better than spanx, which i was planning to buy

but after seeing the stans...i&#039;ll pass, i prefer a company that at least respects consumers whether potential or ex...

plus i saw someone else say how uncomfortable it is and how difficult it is to get into and so yeh...back to spanx...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SO, I&#8217;ve been on this site all damn day&#8230;good job! LOL </p>
<p>onto this whole debate. your post made me want one. I have some cheap azz girdles that always bunch up and just do an all around terrible job and i saw where someone says it does it even better than spanx, which i was planning to buy</p>
<p>but after seeing the stans&#8230;i&#8217;ll pass, i prefer a company that at least respects consumers whether potential or ex&#8230;</p>
<p>plus i saw someone else say how uncomfortable it is and how difficult it is to get into and so yeh&#8230;back to spanx&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-3531</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 22:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sooo glad you shared! Thank you, thank you, thank you for that! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sooo glad you shared! Thank you, thank you, thank you for that! <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-3530</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 22:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad to do my part, mama. :)</description>
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		<title>By: Pecan Tan</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-3524</link>
		<dc:creator>Pecan Tan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 21:08:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erika, I love your observation and research... not to mention, the way you FILTER and respond to the disrespectful comments (brilliant!)

I&#039;m an owner of the Body Magic.  And while I love the silhouette I get while wearing it, I have many, MANY issues...

1.  It&#039;s gawd-awful UNCOMFORTABLE!  So much so that I only wear it when I&#039;m only going to need it for 2 - 3 hours, that&#039;s it.  I made the mistake of wearing it to work once... needless to say, I couldn&#039;t make it through the 8 hour day before I was in the ladies room peelin it off me.


2.  I can&#039;t STAND the whole pyramid marketing scheme that comes along with the territory.  The whole &quot;You can purchase it for $___________, however, if you join now and become a distributor, you can get it for $_____________.&quot;  Everytime I come across a distributor, they&#039;re pushing the BUSINESS more than they are, the PRODUCT.  It&#039;s extremely irritating.  In order to bypass all of this (and because I&#039;m also a notorious bargain shopper), purchased mine from ebay.  

3.  Every ad I see/hear about the Body Magic claims you can lose up to three inches/dress sizes while wearing... I&#039;ve yet to lose any inches or drop any sizes.  In fact, those I&#039;ve SEEN wearing a Body Magic haven&#039;t lost any inches/dress sizes either.  All this garment does for me (and for the others I&#039;ve seen), is &quot;tuck&quot; and &quot;smooth.&quot;  The clothes that once fit tight, STILL fits tight... I just no-longer have a LUMPY silhouette when I wear them.

I agree with the comments &quot;Get Togetha&quot; and &quot;Huny&quot; made... It&#039;s just a damn girdle!  A well-constructed, full coverage girdle.  Because people want instant gratification, with no work or effort involved, companies of all genres FEED on the laziness and naive-ness of the millions... billions of people willing to shell-out countless amounts of dollars to fix their &quot;problem.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erika, I love your observation and research&#8230; not to mention, the way you FILTER and respond to the disrespectful comments (brilliant!)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m an owner of the Body Magic.  And while I love the silhouette I get while wearing it, I have many, MANY issues&#8230;</p>
<p>1.  It&#8217;s gawd-awful UNCOMFORTABLE!  So much so that I only wear it when I&#8217;m only going to need it for 2 &#8211; 3 hours, that&#8217;s it.  I made the mistake of wearing it to work once&#8230; needless to say, I couldn&#8217;t make it through the 8 hour day before I was in the ladies room peelin it off me.</p>
<p>2.  I can&#8217;t STAND the whole pyramid marketing scheme that comes along with the territory.  The whole &#8220;You can purchase it for $___________, however, if you join now and become a distributor, you can get it for $_____________.&#8221;  Everytime I come across a distributor, they&#8217;re pushing the BUSINESS more than they are, the PRODUCT.  It&#8217;s extremely irritating.  In order to bypass all of this (and because I&#8217;m also a notorious bargain shopper), purchased mine from ebay.  </p>
<p>3.  Every ad I see/hear about the Body Magic claims you can lose up to three inches/dress sizes while wearing&#8230; I&#8217;ve yet to lose any inches or drop any sizes.  In fact, those I&#8217;ve SEEN wearing a Body Magic haven&#8217;t lost any inches/dress sizes either.  All this garment does for me (and for the others I&#8217;ve seen), is &#8220;tuck&#8221; and &#8220;smooth.&#8221;  The clothes that once fit tight, STILL fits tight&#8230; I just no-longer have a LUMPY silhouette when I wear them.</p>
<p>I agree with the comments &#8220;Get Togetha&#8221; and &#8220;Huny&#8221; made&#8230; It&#8217;s just a damn girdle!  A well-constructed, full coverage girdle.  Because people want instant gratification, with no work or effort involved, companies of all genres FEED on the laziness and naive-ness of the millions&#8230; billions of people willing to shell-out countless amounts of dollars to fix their &#8220;problem.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Rochelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rochelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 02:16:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! I knew there was a reason why I couldn&#039;t bring myself to buy the Body Magic. Thanks for this info, I would have never known that it only redistributes fat and displaces your organs. I don&#039;t need ANY health problems and I thank GOD I saw this article. Wow! This is nothing but GOD. Actually, I like Spanx. It smooths me out and gives me the look I want under my clothes as a temporary help as I make my lifestyle change  OF WORKING OUT AND CHANGING MY EATING HABITS. hint hint :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! I knew there was a reason why I couldn&#8217;t bring myself to buy the Body Magic. Thanks for this info, I would have never known that it only redistributes fat and displaces your organs. I don&#8217;t need ANY health problems and I thank GOD I saw this article. Wow! This is nothing but GOD. Actually, I like Spanx. It smooths me out and gives me the look I want under my clothes as a temporary help as I make my lifestyle change  OF WORKING OUT AND CHANGING MY EATING HABITS. hint hint <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 18:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I allow negative comments because I think they deserve to be heard just as much as the positive ones. 

My character, quite honestly, is to stop foolishness in its tracks. It&#039;s one of the primary goals of this site. I take it seriously, and I have a sharp tongue, lol. I don&#039;t apologize for that - it is my character, and I believe my straightforwardness and honesty is why people frequent this site. 

You&#039;d honestly be surprised by how many comments this particular post receives/has received, how many names I&#039;ve been called and how many comments actually get deleted. The ones I&#039;ve chosen to let through, I&#039;ve done so for a very specific reason. I&#039;m sure you&#039;ve noticed you won&#039;t find this kind of hostile tone anywhere else on the site, right? ;)

Trust me.. I&#039;m on my job. I&#039;ve also chosen to leave this one dressed in its dirt for a particular reason. Thank you for noticing, though. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I allow negative comments because I think they deserve to be heard just as much as the positive ones. </p>
<p>My character, quite honestly, is to stop foolishness in its tracks. It&#8217;s one of the primary goals of this site. I take it seriously, and I have a sharp tongue, lol. I don&#8217;t apologize for that &#8211; it is my character, and I believe my straightforwardness and honesty is why people frequent this site. </p>
<p>You&#8217;d honestly be surprised by how many comments this particular post receives/has received, how many names I&#8217;ve been called and how many comments actually get deleted. The ones I&#8217;ve chosen to let through, I&#8217;ve done so for a very specific reason. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve noticed you won&#8217;t find this kind of hostile tone anywhere else on the site, right? <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Trust me.. I&#8217;m on my job. I&#8217;ve also chosen to leave this one dressed in its dirt for a particular reason. Thank you for noticing, though. <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lakeisha</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1766</link>
		<dc:creator>Lakeisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 16:53:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW!!! Erika, I actually LOVE your story and it has been very inspirational!!! I dont however agree with the negative dialogue.  I always wonder why we as WOMEN OF COLOR find it hard to agree to disagree and not judge one another? We get enough of that from others.  Your site is very informative. I guess my only question would be why allow comments that are negative and then respond to them in a seemingly positve yet negative way? (MY OPINION) I say keep up the good work and not allow others to take you out of character. That is if your intent is to help others.  Now if its just to say I have the facts and you dont then by all means, carry on!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW!!! Erika, I actually LOVE your story and it has been very inspirational!!! I dont however agree with the negative dialogue.  I always wonder why we as WOMEN OF COLOR find it hard to agree to disagree and not judge one another? We get enough of that from others.  Your site is very informative. I guess my only question would be why allow comments that are negative and then respond to them in a seemingly positve yet negative way? (MY OPINION) I say keep up the good work and not allow others to take you out of character. That is if your intent is to help others.  Now if its just to say I have the facts and you dont then by all means, carry on!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Tricia</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1716</link>
		<dc:creator>Tricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 05:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow at some of these comments!

I heard of Ardyss and this body magic shaper thing for the first time a couple of weeks ago at a Weight Watchers meeting... I listened to the saleswoman&#039;s pitch (also a WW member) which focused a lot on how it reshapes your body and all I could think is 1- spanx keeps me looking smooth and doesn&#039;t cost as much and 2- weren&#039;t we all paying for Weight Watchers and (supposedly) following the program to reshape our bodies naturally? If it turns out that I don&#039;t have an &quot;hourglass&quot; shape - then what&#039;s so wrong with the way I&#039;m naturally made?

Anyway, I haven&#039;t tried it but I&#039;m someone with an opinion on things like this - and I totally feel you and respect the fact that you posted this (wish I found it earlier). A quick fix is never the answer to a problem that has taken time to develop. Haste makes waste, as the say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow at some of these comments!</p>
<p>I heard of Ardyss and this body magic shaper thing for the first time a couple of weeks ago at a Weight Watchers meeting&#8230; I listened to the saleswoman&#8217;s pitch (also a WW member) which focused a lot on how it reshapes your body and all I could think is 1- spanx keeps me looking smooth and doesn&#8217;t cost as much and 2- weren&#8217;t we all paying for Weight Watchers and (supposedly) following the program to reshape our bodies naturally? If it turns out that I don&#8217;t have an &#8220;hourglass&#8221; shape &#8211; then what&#8217;s so wrong with the way I&#8217;m naturally made?</p>
<p>Anyway, I haven&#8217;t tried it but I&#8217;m someone with an opinion on things like this &#8211; and I totally feel you and respect the fact that you posted this (wish I found it earlier). A quick fix is never the answer to a problem that has taken time to develop. Haste makes waste, as the say.</p>
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		<title>By: Evelyn</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1709</link>
		<dc:creator>Evelyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 00:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huny, you have just used my favorite word perfectly to describe many of the comments I&#039;ve read here: ASININE. I believe that Erika has provided a responsible, well- written article on the subject, and those with a clear bias are responding with a lot of arguments that don&#039;t make sense and unnecessarily high levels of emotion. 

If you don&#039;t agree with the article, wear your garment and enjoy being uncomfortable. I personally REFUSE to trade one kind of restriction (an extra 100+ pounds) for another (girdles/corsets of any kind). I&#039;m a singer and I need to breathe. As I lose weight (the right way), I want my body to move freely and naturally through an entire range of motion, as it was meant to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huny, you have just used my favorite word perfectly to describe many of the comments I&#8217;ve read here: ASININE. I believe that Erika has provided a responsible, well- written article on the subject, and those with a clear bias are responding with a lot of arguments that don&#8217;t make sense and unnecessarily high levels of emotion. </p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t agree with the article, wear your garment and enjoy being uncomfortable. I personally REFUSE to trade one kind of restriction (an extra 100+ pounds) for another (girdles/corsets of any kind). I&#8217;m a singer and I need to breathe. As I lose weight (the right way), I want my body to move freely and naturally through an entire range of motion, as it was meant to.</p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1708</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 00:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful. I couldn&#039;t have said it better. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful. I couldn&#8217;t have said it better. <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1707</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 00:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, you&#039;re not only looking for an argument, you&#039;re tucking your tail between your legs. The ONE part of my post where I would&#039;ve needed to have tried a Body Magic in order to validate my comments was the part where I actually gave the product credit. One might, at that point, presume that I&#039;ve tried the garment on. For some reason, you &quot;missed&quot; that. 

Therefore, you&#039;re undoubtedly attempting to pick an argument.. and failing miserably. Sorry, SAB. Have a lovely evening, though. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, you&#8217;re not only looking for an argument, you&#8217;re tucking your tail between your legs. The ONE part of my post where I would&#8217;ve needed to have tried a Body Magic in order to validate my comments was the part where I actually gave the product credit. One might, at that point, presume that I&#8217;ve tried the garment on. For some reason, you &#8220;missed&#8221; that. </p>
<p>Therefore, you&#8217;re undoubtedly attempting to pick an argument.. and failing miserably. Sorry, SAB. Have a lovely evening, though. <img src='http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: huny</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1706</link>
		<dc:creator>huny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 23:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I have a problem with people giving an opinion on something they have not tried&quot;

that&#039;s asinine. there&#039;s plenty of room to wage an opinion on a myriad of topics without &quot;trying it&quot; first. that&#039;s where facts, science and common sense come in. sniffing cocaine, jumping off a bridge, eating red velvet cupcakes for breakfast, lunch and dinner, having unprotected sex - all things I don&#039;t personally need to try in order to take a valid and well informed stance on.

I get notifications on this post and it always tickles me how many ardyss stans try to attack it without reading it first. it&#039;s like yall are an effing cult. it&#039;s a girdle - that&#039;s it. cool. I actually wear corsets myself. but I don&#039;t fool myself into thinking the more I wear them the more weight I&#039;ll lose or that it&#039;ll fix my posture or firm my abs or &quot;change [my] life&quot; (word?!). everyone wants a quick fix and it&#039;s - once again - asinine. it actually makes my sad how many women are spending hundreds of dollars on these products because they think they&#039;ll do all they promised. if these body shapers were touted as a girdle and nothing more this post wouldn&#039;t even exist. but they&#039;re being advertised as a weight loss fix and that&#039;s not right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I have a problem with people giving an opinion on something they have not tried&#8221;</p>
<p>that&#8217;s asinine. there&#8217;s plenty of room to wage an opinion on a myriad of topics without &#8220;trying it&#8221; first. that&#8217;s where facts, science and common sense come in. sniffing cocaine, jumping off a bridge, eating red velvet cupcakes for breakfast, lunch and dinner, having unprotected sex &#8211; all things I don&#8217;t personally need to try in order to take a valid and well informed stance on.</p>
<p>I get notifications on this post and it always tickles me how many ardyss stans try to attack it without reading it first. it&#8217;s like yall are an effing cult. it&#8217;s a girdle &#8211; that&#8217;s it. cool. I actually wear corsets myself. but I don&#8217;t fool myself into thinking the more I wear them the more weight I&#8217;ll lose or that it&#8217;ll fix my posture or firm my abs or &#8220;change [my] life&#8221; (word?!). everyone wants a quick fix and it&#8217;s &#8211; once again &#8211; asinine. it actually makes my sad how many women are spending hundreds of dollars on these products because they think they&#8217;ll do all they promised. if these body shapers were touted as a girdle and nothing more this post wouldn&#8217;t even exist. but they&#8217;re being advertised as a weight loss fix and that&#8217;s not right.</p>
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		<title>By: SAB</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1705</link>
		<dc:creator>SAB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 23:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes I read the entire post. And no I am not looking for an argument. I just know that a wise person does not comment on something theh have not tried.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I read the entire post. And no I am not looking for an argument. I just know that a wise person does not comment on something theh have not tried.</p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
		<link>http://blackgirlsguidetoweightloss.com/debunking-the-myths/the-body-magic-isnt-magic-afterall/#comment-1704</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 23:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I didn&#039;t even address your question... much like you didn&#039;t address mine. In the actual article, I said the following: 

&lt;em&gt;This is for those women who are confused and concerned and are leaning toward spending their hard earned recession-era money on a magic garment that is being peddled as if it can solve all that ails us… only to be sorely disappointed. It’s simply not worth it.

In conclusion, should you choose to ball out of control and purchase a Body Magic, do it because you appreciate the temporary – and occasional – effect it has on your body.&lt;/em&gt;

You, my dear, are looking for an argument. You won&#039;t find one here. You didn&#039;t read my post, did you? I suppose the answer would be no. (smile)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I didn&#8217;t even address your question&#8230; much like you didn&#8217;t address mine. In the actual article, I said the following: </p>
<p><em>This is for those women who are confused and concerned and are leaning toward spending their hard earned recession-era money on a magic garment that is being peddled as if it can solve all that ails us… only to be sorely disappointed. It’s simply not worth it.</p>
<p>In conclusion, should you choose to ball out of control and purchase a Body Magic, do it because you appreciate the temporary – and occasional – effect it has on your body.</em></p>
<p>You, my dear, are looking for an argument. You won&#8217;t find one here. You didn&#8217;t read my post, did you? I suppose the answer would be no. (smile)</p>
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